That’s actually a really sad question to ask – not sad as in pathetic, but sad as in “sorrow”. The fact that you feel need to ask us this tells me that your man has become complacent and lazy. It’s not your job to keep him interested. What, are you a Disney ride? A computer game? A boring lesson at school? No, you’re not. You’re an incredible woman with lots to offer than he doesn’t appreciate, because he’s not focusing on your heart and mind. When a man focuses where he ought, a woman doesn’t have to try to keep him interested. To be sure, you need to do your part. Your part might look like this:
1). Never pretend to be sick for the purpose of denying your husband sex. You must give it to him . Sex is very important to men
2). Never raise your voice for any reason against your husband. Its a sign of disrespect.
3). Don’t expose your husband’s weaknesses to your family and friends. It will bounce back on you.
4). Never use attitudes and moods to communicate to your husband, you never know how your husband will interpret them.
5). Never compare your husband to other men, you’ve no idea what their life is all about. If you attack his ego, his love for you will diminish.
6). Never forget that your husband married you, not your maid, do your duties.
7). Never assign anyone to give attention to your husband, people may do everything else but your husband is your own responsibility.
8). Never blame your husband if he comes back home empty handed. Rather encourage him.
9).Don’t associate with women who have a wrong mental attitude about marriage
10).Don’t be too judgemental to your husband. No man wants a nagging wife
11).Never allow your friends to be too close to your husband
12).Never challenge your husband in front of the children. Wise women don’t do that.