The issue of marriage on the side of ladies has become the ordeal of the day in Africa. Most Ladies, at a younger dreams of getting married at a targeted age but as time approaches, they realize they are nowhere near that dream of getting married.
In this Article, I will spell out some main reasons why most ladies above 30years are still not married and suggest solutions to it.
1 . Laziness
Unlike the olden days where hard work was the hallmark of women, these days, most women refuses to get their hands dirty in the hustle environment, thinking that a hardworking man somewhere else will come and marry them because of how beautiful they are.
lol. sorry to be disappointed but trust me, it doesn’t work like that.
A hardworking man needs a hardworking woman to move and so therefore if you are lazy as a woman, that hardworking man will come dating you alright, but he will never marry you.
So if you are lady, work hard. Get your hands dirty in the hustle environment if you want to have that hardworking man.
2 . Anticipating to Marry a Rich man.
This is the slogan of most ladies when they begin to approach the stage of marriage but it turns upside down when such anticipating is not working out.
Most ladies turn down some category of men that comes their way to propose to them claiming that they are ‘broke ass guys’ but meanwhile that man is so hardworking and knows where he is going in life but it very unfortunate that most ladies don’t have that eye to see and so therefore they turn to reject these kind of men and go out there to date ‘rich guys’ thinking that they will get married in future but the truth is, that guy will never marry you because.
You are just helping him to enjoy life before he gets married. so during time, he will be searching for a vibrant lady who has the brains to help him sustain his wealth. My advice to ladies out there is that, whenever a man approaches to propose, don’t just look at what he has currently, but look at what he will have in some years to come by finding out what is goals and ambitions are and move with him to work things out together.
it is always better to hustle with a man and become successful together rather than meeting an already made wealthy man.
Do you know his source of wealth? even if you do, what can you also boast of. Are you entering into the life of that wealthy ma without owning anything for yourself? You will regret it when something bad happens in the marriage.