“A reporter asked the couple, “How did you manage to stay together for 80 years?” The woman replied, “We were born in a time when if something was broken we would fix it, not throw it away.”
- Treat them the way you did at the beginning, if you don’t want to see the end of it.
When you start dating someone you’re really trying hard to impress and win. If you treat them the same way throughout your relationship, it won’t fade out or get boring.
- Don’t take them for granted.
When someone becomes a part of your routine it’s easy to forget what it was like before they came into the picture. You get comfortable. You get used to things. When you get too used to having someone you stop appreciating what you have.
3. Don’t allow jealousy or insecurities to overcome you.
Yes, people are going to hit on them, exes might return and blow up their phone. You aren’t the only one who finds them attractive. But when jealousy arises what you are really telling your partner is I’m not confident enough in myself to keep you.
4. Do learn to pick your battles wisely.
There are going to be some things worth fighting for. The things you really care about and believe in but the smartest people know when to fight and know when to just agree to something even when they don’t.
5. Don’t rely on them for your happiness.
Your happiness has everything to do with you, you can’t put that on them.
6. Do help them to achieve their goals.
Support them. Encourage them. Push them to get to where THEY want. The best way to achieve anything is having at least one person know you can.
7. Don’t hide things from them.
Be honest with them even if that honesty might hurt. The truth always has a way of coming out and when it does, if you tried to hide it, it hurts the person even more.
8. Do tell them you love them every day.
Don’t let a day go by without saying those three words.
9. Don’t break their heart.
When you have something and someone good, don’t go looking for something better. Learn to appreciate what you have. Learn that the best relationships are the ones you don’t give up on each other.
We are in a generation where it’s easy to walk away and just give up. Don’t do that. Be that story that says we made it all the way and that’s because we never gave up on each other or walked away from the. love we found.
10. Don’t let feelings and emotions build up.
When you let negative feelings build up what happens is it’ll all come out at once at the completely wrong time. Take heavy and negative emotions as they come and deal with them right then and there.
11. Don’t force her for sex .
He or She is not a sex material, because when proposing to her you to told her you love her to marriage, not for sex to marriage, you can love both have sex when married . So please don’t be forcing them for sex, so you tell him or her i want to see if you really love so let’s have sex. That is totally wrong.